If we take the full set of white males alive today and sort them by the times they have loudly sung the lyrics "Don't make me make you fall in love with a nigga like me," I have to imagine that I am pretty near the top.
I read someone's explanation of The Weeknd's lyrics once and it was basically "if any man said the things he
does to a woman, they would slap him and call the police, but when he
sings them they want to drop their panties." Were I a girl I think I would just shrug and nod at that.